{"id":184,"date":"2025-10-29T20:58:03","date_gmt":"2025-10-29T20:58:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.com.tr\/?p=184"},"modified":"2025-10-29T20:58:03","modified_gmt":"2025-10-29T20:58:03","slug":"son-nefesinizde-yaninizda-kim-olsun-isterdiniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/?p=184","title":{"rendered":"Son Nefesinizde Yan\u0131n\u0131zda Kim Olsun \u0130sterdiniz?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hangi hayatlar korumaya, kollamaya, ard\u0131ndan yas tutmaya de\u011ferdir?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Judith Butler\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Son nefesinizi vermeden hemen \u00f6ncesini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026 Yan\u0131n\u0131zda kimlerin olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterdiniz..?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Hacetttepe Onkoloji – B\u00f6l\u00fcm 92<\/span><\/h2>\n

Hacettepe \u00dcniversitesi Onkoloji Hastanesi \u00c7ocuk B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc di\u011fer ad\u0131 ile B\u00f6l\u00fcm 92\u2026 Bu b\u00f6l\u00fcmdeki hasta odalar\u0131 U \u015feklinde ve her odada iki hasta yata\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in toplam 18 oda vard\u0131r ve her oda \u00e7ift rakamla numaraland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in son oda numaras\u0131 36 nolu odad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklara ilk te\u015fhis konuldu\u011fu zaman kemoterapi ald\u0131klar\u0131 zaman 2 nolu odadan ba\u015flayarak yat\u0131\u015f yap\u0131l\u0131r. Ve hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n seyri ilerledik\u00e7e oda numaras\u0131 da artar ve 36 nolu odaya do\u011fru ilerledik\u00e7e sona yakla\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z yani hastan\u0131z\u0131n durumu daha da a\u011f\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f demektir. 36 nolu odan\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi vard\u0131r doktor ve hem\u015fire odas\u0131na en yak\u0131n odad\u0131r ve ani m\u00fcdahale i\u00e7in termal d\u00f6nemdeki hastalar\u0131n bu odaya yat\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 tercih edilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Umut…<\/span><\/h2>\n

O\u011flum \u0130brahim Meri\u00e7\u2019in cennete olan yolculu\u011funa 15 g\u00fcn kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, 15 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Umut 36 nolu odada yat\u0131yordu, a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve en a\u011f\u0131r morfin ila\u00e7lar\u0131 bile a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 dindirmeye yetmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ac\u0131dan y\u00fcksek sesle inliyordu. Oradaki hasta yak\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sonuna \u015fahitlik edercesine bu sesten rahats\u0131z olmuyor ancak i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e yak\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fecek yas\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n

Umut\u2026 A\u011fr\u0131\u2019dan i\u015f bulmak i\u00e7in Eski\u015fehir\u2019e g\u00f6\u00e7 etmi\u015f 9 \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fu idi. Baba vefat etmi\u015f, anne ise yoksullukla m\u00fccadele ederek evlatlar\u0131 ile birlikte hayata tutunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan yakla\u015f\u0131k 70 ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki Ay\u015fe teyze… \u0130\u00e7ine kapan\u0131k, hastanede hasta yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n aralar\u0131ndaki sohbetlerine bile kat\u0131lmaktan \u00e7ekinen vakarl\u0131 bir Anadolu kad\u0131n\u0131…<\/span><\/p>\n

Sevenlerin Bulu\u015fmas\u0131 ve Hafifleyen A\u011fr\u0131lar<\/span><\/h2>\n

Bir Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc Onkoloji Hastanesinin psikolo\u011fu benimle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istemi\u015fti. Bana Umut\u2019un karde\u015flerini g\u00f6rmek istedi\u011fini ancak karde\u015flerinin bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n Eski\u015fehir\u2019de birinin de K\u00fctahya\u2019da \u00fcniversite okudu\u011funu ama ailenin maddi durumu iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yol paralar\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek g\u00f6revimden dolay\u0131 sosyal yard\u0131mla\u015fma vakf\u0131ndan faydalanmak i\u00e7in yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmam\u0131 rica etmi\u015fti. Eski\u015fehir ve K\u00fctahya \u0130l m\u00fcd\u00fcrlerimizi arad\u0131m ve 1-2 saat i\u00e7erisinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z devletimizin sosyal yard\u0131m kaynaklar\u0131ndan nakdi yard\u0131m\u0131 aileye ula\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131lar. Cumartesi sabah\u0131 Umut\u2019un karde\u015fleri gelmi\u015fti. Umut\u2019un eskisi gibi a\u011fr\u0131dan inlemiyordu belli ki a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 dinmi\u015fti…<\/span><\/p>\n

Veda…<\/span><\/h2>\n

O gece karde\u015fleri hastanede kald\u0131lar ve Umut mutluydu, sanki karde\u015fleri a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131na \u015fifa olmu\u015f gibiydi\u2026 Pazar sabaha do\u011fru Umut\u2019un cennete yolcu\u011fu ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve b\u00f6l\u00fcm 92\u2019deki herkes Umut\u2019un arkas\u0131ndan karde\u015fleriyle birlikte g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6k\u00fcyordu\u2026 Sanki son nefesini vermek i\u00e7in karde\u015flerini beklemi\u015f ve onlarla vedala\u015farak cennete yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Sosyal Devlet<\/span><\/h2>\n

Bazen devletin verdi\u011fi sosyal yard\u0131mlar\u0131 fazla bulur, bir\u00e7o\u011funun yerini bulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Ancak e\u011fer o sosyal yard\u0131mlar bir bireyin son nefesinde sevdikleriyle birlikte olmas\u0131 gerekli ise bu sosyal yard\u0131m en de\u011ferli hizmettir\u2026 Sosyal devlet i\u015fte tam da bu durumlar i\u00e7in \u00e7ok gereklidir. Uzla\u015ft\u0131rma s\u00fcrecinde m\u00fc\u015ftekilere edim hakk\u0131nda bilgilendirme yaparken \u00f6nce sosyal hizmet edimlerinden bahsederim. \u015eunu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki sosyal hizmet edimleri hem ma\u011fdur i\u00e7in onar\u0131c\u0131 oluyor hem de fail bu sosyal edimi yerine getirirken empati yaparak ma\u011fdura verdi\u011fi zarar\u0131n bu yolla telafi etmeyi daha \u00e7ok tercih ediyor.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHangi hayatlar korumaya, kollamaya, ard\u0131ndan yas tutmaya de\u011ferdir?\u201d sorusunun cevab\u0131na gelince;\u00a0<\/em><\/span>\u201celbette ki t\u00fcm hayatlar korumaya, kollamaya, ard\u0131ndan yas tutmaya de\u011ferdir<\/strong>\u201d.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Abdulkadir ANA\u00c7<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

20 \u015eubat 2020 Cumartesi \u2013 Cebeci, Ankara<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hangi hayatlar korumaya, kollamaya, ard\u0131ndan yas tutmaya de\u011ferdir? Judith Butler\u00a0 Son nefesinizi vermeden hemen \u00f6ncesini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026 Yan\u0131n\u0131zda kimlerin olmas\u0131n\u0131 isterdiniz..? Hacetttepe Onkoloji – B\u00f6l\u00fcm 92 Hacettepe \u00dcniversitesi Onkoloji Hastanesi \u00c7ocuk B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc di\u011fer ad\u0131 ile B\u00f6l\u00fcm 92\u2026 Bu b\u00f6l\u00fcmdeki hasta odalar\u0131 U \u015feklinde ve her odada iki hasta yata\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in toplam 18 oda vard\u0131r ve […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":310,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[8,11,12,13],"class_list":["post-184","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-oyku-deneme","tag-cocuk","tag-hayat","tag-onkoloji","tag-sosyal-devlet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=184"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eniyihoca.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}